Empty Nesters Unite!

Four women gathered in my gazebo Saturday morning with beverages in hand hoping to find encouragement in the shared experiences and struggles navigating this transitional time in our lives - launching our children. It was an interesting foursome, ladies from different parts of my life finding connections in unexpected shared acquaintances and shared experiences.
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After everyone else had departed, one gal asked what I had taken away from our time together. She was concerned that as host, I lacked opportunity to share. Not a chance! I never have a problem speaking up, ;-) and I loved listening to the conversation between these women.

My take-aways:

1) No "Cheats" Here - Whether our children live far away or under the same roof - it's tough navigating a new role in parenting: It's tough setting boundaries for our adult children, while being supportive.
2) Great Idea! Work on a shared project together even though we may be miles apart. It can give us something positive to talk about during our phone conversations or times together.
     *work on the same knitting/crocheting pattern. How fun it would be to show off the finished product to each other. Of course, I would make sure there was a picture of us with our projects. :)
     *go through the same devotional and share what God is teaching you.
     *read and discuss a book.
     *try out a new recipe and share the results, modifications, suggestions. (Both my kids enjoy sharing their cooking adventures and Chad loves to share his own recipes; it gives me a window on his world.)
4) Gratitude. Focusing on the positive and thanking God helps our outlook and attitude. Philippians 4:8-9
5) He's got to be enough. So... the kids are gone; enjoy the new found freedom of being a couple, again. I love this part of the empty nest! ;-)
5) Finally, Get over it! It's not about me. "I often think I'm the "Queen Bee" and the world should revolve around me"... or perhaps at least  "a Princess"? LOL! Reality check, please!

Thank you, Lord, for the precious women in my life. Thank you for kindred spirits. the traveling companions you've given me along this journey. Thank you for true friendships.

More Dancing, Singing, Loving

Continuing to dance, sing, and love:
* Singing along with "Grace Like Rain" on the radio and seeing the guy in the truck next to me mouthing the exact same lyrics - made my day!
* My neighbor and good friend brought dinner over to Craig and me when she was the one home alone for the week. Great meal, great fellowship - true fellowship; the kind where we both encourage and exhort. Love this gal!
* Unexpected visit from my dad for dinner. Loved the visit, sitting on the deck as the sun went down.
* A good night's sleep with the cool, fresh air blowing through the open windows.

I think I used to get this song and the one in my previous post mixed up...both have the lyrics, "I want to live like there's no tomorrow."



"Waking up to the sunrise and the radio
Feels like I'm tied up, what's holding me?
Just praying today will be the day I go free...
I want to be the way I was made!"

Lord,
I am ready to be free to be who you made me to be. I wanna live, I wanna laugh, I wanna love...I wanna give, I wanna sing, I wanna dance. Loose me from what's holding me back; hurt, unforgiveness, fear, self-confidence, self-image...yeah, anything that's holding me back.

Life is Good!

This song has been stuck in my brain, but I had trouble finding the artist, lyrics and Youtube. Whenever I hear it on the radio, I crank it up and sing along. It describes how I feel about my life, how I wanna live...

"And the joy that we get brings joy to the giver..."

Singing about the joy in today:

Hearing about not one but TWO God appointments and being given a specific assignment to pray about regarding these "appointments". Praying for God's work to be completed, and a harvest realized! All glory to Him!

Spending two beautiful evenings on the deck, reading, watching, thinking, praying.

Spending two evenings in a row catching up with girlfriends.

Getting knitting/crocheting instructions to finish a multi-year project. I still have a long way to go.

A productive one-on-one meeting with my boss. The best yet!

Repeatable results on my test.

The many privileges and "fringe benefits" of being a GM employee.

Knowing and believing Romans 8:28 - Resting in God's faithful arms, and waiting on Him.

Lord,
I'm working on living like there's no tomorrow, not wasting another minute...it's good to be alive! I pray the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart will bring you honor and glory, today.  Rejoicing in the day you have made...Thank you!

I've Got Reasons

To bless the Lord, O my soul...



...for He has surely blessed me!

I have just completed 2 years back to GM as a full time, directly employed engineer. I can hardly believe that it's been a year since my probationary period ended. I am still learning. I still feel totally inadequate. I still make lots of mistakes. I still say dumb things. (really dumb things!) I am still getting to know my co-workers and colleagues. I definitely don't have it all figured out. I am SO thankful for the grace my boss and co-workers extend to me. I've wanted to quit, but they encourage me on. Blessed - that's what I am!

Thanks to the job that I have, I got to spend a week with my gal, mostly just hanging out together after work in her apartment, getting a chance to see where she worships, lives and to hang out with her colleague-friends! WOW! Did I say colleagues? Blessed - that's what I am!

Chatting for an hour with my "little" guy. Yeah - HE called me...just to chat. Not to ask for anything. Love hearing his voice. Love the positive attitude that flows through the receiver. Love the chuckles and digs when I've overstepped into the "nosey"  - information you don't need to know, Mom - area. Funny. Blessed - that's what I am!

Spent an absolutely gorgeous day on the golf course with colleagues from all over the industry; some suppliers, some competitors, some who formerly held my job, some who share my faith and how neat it is to have that connection and be able to share how God is working in our lives in the midst of talking "shop". Blessed - that's what I am!

"Seeing" prayers answered for my family. A special doctor who shares our faith and my desire to go "natural". A therapist who relates perfectly. Blessed - that's what I am!

Lord,
"Whatever may pass, and whatever lies before me, let me be singing when the evening comes..." because I have 10000 reasons to bless your name.